REAL TALK: Generation Hate…Who Is Doing All This Hating?!?!
AUTHOR: Mz.Paparazzi242 May 14, 2010
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It is so very sad to see and hear almost 95% of the black youths of current generation talk about the quote unquote, “HATER FACTOR“, “haterz e’ery where u go….lol! Even the mainstream media has gotten into the act with childish lyrics and vast promotions of the sad existence of life only thru bling, cars, women and the lust for the same. I’ve come to the conclusion that whatever the mind perceives…..it creates. THE MIND IS A POWERFUL TOOL, but we’ll talk about this later.
How is it that 9 ½ persons out of ten are being hated on 24 hours a day seven days a week, it cant be that the remaining ½ persons are left to hate on these 9 ½ persons (its impossible) lets clarify this situation shall we…cause many of us same to be very confused:
1. If someone is admiring your photos or checking out the outfit you wear, it doesn’t necessarily mean that they are hating on you. You worked hard to look good and people staring should serve as a compliment to your hard work. Unless negative gestures are made or things are said, accept that compliment and move on; cause chances are only you are dwelling on that event.
2. If someone sees you in an outfit and offers constructive criticism like, “I love your hair but I’m not sure that color suits you, or I don’t know if that outfit would look right on you, maybe you should try an outfit that’s more slimming.” Baby that’s someone trying to ensure that you don’t end up looking like a damn fool. Its CONSTRUCTIVE-CRITICISM. It’s supposed to build you up. So accept it gracefully and move on. GOD!
3. If one of your closest friends see you in an outfit and goes out and buy the same outfit in another color…maybe she just thought you made the outfit look that good, so she couldn’t resist, but here you go with the hater factor. Tell me please, what makes you the exception, honey-child may have seen a chick off the street in that outfit and depending on how that chick rocked it, she would still have bought that outfit. So maybe, just maybe it’s not you. Let’s think a little more.
ALTERNATIVELY:-
1. If you find someone you work with or hang in the same circle with, mouthing off all types of lies about you, UNPROVOKED remove this person from your life, don’t let this person make you a vengeful or hateful being…stay true to you and most definitely STOP telling him/her your secrets.
2. If a chick you tell all your secrets too, every detail of your relationship and everything you’ve ever done in your entire life, uses this information to get with your man cause she cant handle how good he treats you….BEAT…..THAT…..BITCH….DOWN!!! Remove this vicious hater fro our life. This is a low-down, cold, callous, conniving person, a person of no caliber and low self-esteem. Get ride of that green monster, before it’s too late and buy some hater blockers (preferably Gucci lol)
My question too you is, “who is doing all of this so called hating?” Or is it that we hate on ourselves or create none-existent hate to feel watched, needed or that we even exist. As I said before, the mind is a powerful tool. Don’t use this gift from God as a negative tool. If you intend to create something, out of nothing, try creating a better, more educated all-that-you-can-be YOU. Darlings, I’ve summed up hate to our own inner shortcomings or low self-esteem. A word to the wise from an old BAHAMIAN adage, “black crabs in a crate will step on dey ma to get to da top”.
Over & Out!!!
