November 7, 2010   Ask Reka, Real Talk   3 Comments

ASK REKA: She’s Pregnant w/ 2 Possible Baby Daddies!!!

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OMG!! I was recently the victim of a VERY uncomfortable yet interesting bit of conversation, having been made to be the mediator between a christian friend of mine, his pregnant church going girlfriend and her possible baby-daddy #2 O_o *confusing huh….I know*
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Well story goes that my friend and his girl who he met at his church and who have been dating for well over 3 plus years just recently started experiencing a bit of a bumpy patch in their relationship. Nothing too bad, but they weren’t getting along. To me and our other friends, everything seemed perfect. The two were god-fearing individuals, have good jobs, attended church at least 2 days per week. Hell they even squeezed in time for romantic gift-filled dates here-and-there….to the amazement and jealousy of me and other friends O_o

Well, what’s that saying now…”All that Glitter, damn sure ain’t Gold.” In this case, it ain’t silver or bronze neither O_o Straight to the point. My poor friend and I learned that his girlfriend is 3 months pregnant, possibly for a married man; who she had been dating for just about 3 months in secrecy. All the while telling the said married man that she had left her ex/my friend, 3 months prior. Oh and in the midst of the drama, we all learned that she possibly had an affair with the married pastor too.  Now she’s confused as to who the baby’s daddy really is.  *Jesus take the wheel*

Too stunned and overwhelmed to provide the dude with any level headed answer to his dilemma…I put it to you guys.

WHAT SHOULD HE DO!!!

a). Stay with the chick until the baby is born to get a DNA test?
b).F orget this crazy chick and go get tested immediately?
c). Lose his mind, just ONE time…and think about the consequences later?
d). Other?

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  • DrinkyCrow

    First off he should get tested, after that he needs to decide if he wants to stay or not, if he can’t deal with what happened then leave, if he can deal with it then stay and attempt to salvage the relationship. It all depends on his mentality. After the baby is born, if he is with her or not he needs to support his kid, if he left her and the kid isn’t his then don’t worry about it, if he left and it is his then take care of ya kid. Me personally i woulda backed off, and deal with it after the kid was born, but if she was having a continual sexual relationship with 2 other guys, i woulda took it as i got played, take my lesson from it and move on. But its all how he feels about it, we could only give our thoughts and what we would do, he still has to make that choice for himself.

    • Anonymous

      Very wise words from the Drinky one :P but your right we can only offer up opinions humans have a way of thinking/feeling/deciding for themselves. Hopefully time will hell all.

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