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A lot of women (professional single women) that I know, are resorting to the “Friends with Benefits” movement as a form of extra-curricular activity sort-to-speak!  But then again, the f*ck buddy relationship has gotten so popular that you have women that aren’t emotionally ready for such relationships…participating in them.

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A casual relationship may be part time, or for a limited time, and may or may not be monogamous. The term encompasses friendships between people who enjoy each other’s physical intimacy but do not aspire to be long-term, and may or may not involve parties who desire temporary relationships purely for hedonistic purposes. In each case, the relationship’s dominance in the lives of those involved is being voluntarily limited, and there is usually a sense that the relationship is intended to endure only so long as both parties wish it to.
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The casual relationship, as wiki calls it;  is very convenient if both parties never breach the unspoken contract O_o….YES I SAID IT “THE UNSPOKEN CONTRACT“. This contract which should never be said but should be fully understood keeps all lines clear.  The agreement is often times broken by either the guy–becoming possessive or jealous–but mostly by the gals developing the dreaded EMOTIONS.
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For any *casual* relationship to succeed, one should always remember:-

1. Always use a condom! Very Important
2. Never date outside of the Bedroom((((In fact never converse)))))
3. Never talk about feelings! Unless and only unless your talking sexual feelings and constructive criticism about the same.
4. If you bump into your sexual partner in a public setting WITH ANOTHER PERSON, acknowledge each others presence and move on. They don’t owe you an explanation EVER!
5. Never discuss each others personal lives and partners! Very VERY Bad move.
6. Sex is just that…SEX not a relationship. To fully understand this is to have a very lasting sexual relationship. Don’t walk into this type of relationship expecting something else.
7. Expect nothing but GOOD SEX.

Reka Cartwright

Editor-In-Chief, Blogger, Freelance Writer [Ca Mari Magazine, e-life242 Magazine], Island 102.9FM’s Fame Fridays Radio Show Host, Co-Host Roots & Culture TV Show, Event Reviewer, Critic, Law Student, Paralegal